Introduction

                   Have you ever been hurt by someone in a way that felt deliberate, unnecessary, and completely without regard for your well‑being? And still have not even received an apology for the last two things!! Someone who denied, minimized, or twisted the truth every time you confronted them—until the only way forward was to show undeniable proof, and even then, they tried to shrink their responsibility.

That cycle repeated in my life for years. Each time, I tried a different approach—patience, firmness, logic, compassion, distance—hoping something would finally break the pattern. But nothing changed. The apologies were sincere in the moment, the promises sounded real, and yet the behavior always returned, sometimes within hours, sometimes weeks. Over time, I realized I was trapped in a loop I didn’t create and couldn’t fix.

This website is the story of that seven‑year journey. It isn’t about revenge. It’s about expression, clarity, and closure. I spent years trying to understand the “why”—why the behavior kept happening, why honesty was impossible, why the truth was always just out of reach. I’ve accepted that I may never get those answers. But I can share what I experienced, what I learned, and what I wish I had known sooner.

My purpose is twofold:

• To process my own experience, because silence only deepened the confusion and pain.
• To help others recognize harmful patterns early, so they don’t lose years of their lives to someone who presents one version of themselves while living another.

This story isn’t about exposing private details or attacking anyone. It’s This story is about describing a pattern of behavior that caused real harm and exploring how easily those patterns can hide behind charm, promises, and contradictions. It will expose private details to give proof of what the truth is because so much has been denied, is unknown, and has been portrayed in a way to make one person look innocent, and the other mean and crazy, but I think if the truth is told, quit the opposite picture will start to develop, and this person will either might finally have to look within and change, if not for self-improvement, but just because now their ways won't work anymore when their community becomes aware of them and they will instantly recognize them when they are said or done and that this person's portrayed reputation should be greatly re-assessed. Some of my own actions will appear in this story too—but mainly because it is necessary since the other person uses them as part of their repertoire to shift blame and focus on subject matter. This website is about them, not me. I am not scared of my actons beging exposed, been there and done that. I like to think I am human and make mistakes, and for the most part learn from. This is about one who for some reason doesn't, won't, and maybe can't without a lot of professional help, but currently I fell, just doesn't care to.

I believe people deserve to know what emotional manipulation looks like, how it evolves, and how it can become a cycle that feels impossible to escape. If sharing my experience helps even one person avoid becoming trapped in a similar situation, then the time and vulnerability it takes to tell this story will be worth it.

I invite you to walk through this journey with me—to learn the truth and understand. To question what healthy relationships require. To consider what responsibility we each carry in how we treat others. And to reflect on what kind of world we create when we ignore or normalize harmful behavior.

Let’s explore the truth together.

If you want, I can help you refine this further—more emotional, more restrained, more dramatic, more analytical—whatever direction you want the tone to go.